Breakup boudoir session: the best way to get back at your ex
When you go through a break-up it’s common to want revenge. There’s a reason Carrie Underwood dug her key into the side of his pretty little, souped-up four-wheel drive and why Khloe Kardashian hosts Revenge Body on E! Sadly, vandalizing will get you arrested and we don’t all have access to a Kardashian. The good news is there is a way you can get your revenge, and you don’t need to change a thing about yourself to do it.
Enter the boudoir shoot. The solution to all your break-up blues. What better way to get back at an ex than by celebrating yourself, embracing self-confidence and looking sexy while doing it? Whether you’re happy to be single or still hurting from the heartbreak, breakup boudoir photography will be the reminder you need that you are hot, and everyone is missing out.
Feel comfortable and confident
Posing for the camera allows you to let yourself go, embrace your beauty and let your inner confidence shine. We promise it will all be worth it when you take a look at your photos. Showcase what makes you you, from your smile to your scars. See yourself in a different light and from angles you can’t capture with a selfie. Boudoir shoots ignite a new comfort level you never knew you had in, and one you’ll never want to let go.
The best part of breakup boudoir
The best part of doing a breakup boudoir session is that you’ll have these photos to keep forever as a reminder that you are one fine specimen of a human. Display your photos at home, take them out to look at when you’re feeling down, or plaster them all over social media and let the world know that you love you. Either way, the importance stays the same. You did something for yourself and, relationship or no relationship, you will always be the number one person in your own life. And what better revenge is there than moving on, boosting your confidence and having some killer photos to show for it all?
When planning your wedding for 2018 and beyond, I only have one piece of advice for you. Give your guests the gift of an unplugged wedding ceremony. A ceremony where devices are turned off. Allow them be present, for you, for your vows and for themselves.
Over the weekend I attended the first wedding in over a decade I was not photographing. It was beautiful. The guests were told in the invitation and again in the ceremony there was to be no cameras or phones out. And we were present. We heard the vows. We watched the kiss. And we enjoyed the wedding without having to get “that post” for social.
Before you call me a digital prude, know that I have built my business with social media. I can’t survive as a business without it. Broadway shows, court and other important ceremonies ask for our phones to be put away. Isn’t a wedding more important than a Broadway show? Ok, maybe not for Hamilton fans…
Not only is this a gift for your wedding guests, but it’s a gift for you the wedding couple. You can look back at your friends and family, just like your parents did, sharing in the moment with you.
As a wedding photographer, I’ve photographed dozens of unplugged weddings. I can assure you people need help to stop themselves. Even grandparents are jumping into the aisle with bifocals on to snap a pic! If you book professional wedding photographer or videographer you can leave the job to capturing the moments in their hands. (This is why it’s important to vet your wedding photographer, see article I wrote on this here).
I know what you are going to say, but that baller hashtag we came up with. #marriedtothegamesohetookmyname. No worries here. Use that etsy wedding hashtag sign you bought. You can still embrace electronics during the reception. Break out cameras and phones for the dances and reception madness.
So go ahead have the craziest most insane wedding customized to show your style and give your guests the gift of wedding ceremony presence.
As a guest what do you think of this? Would you still try and snap a pic? Wedding couples will you be doing this?
Top 9 Reasons to Get a Boudoir Photo Experience
A boudoir session with Allebach Photography is much more than just taking sexy photos of a woman in lacy lingerie. Boudoir photography can uncover the most intimate part of who you are in a way that showcases your own unique beauty. It can reveal a new sense of confidence that makes you proud of your curves, your body and your smile. It can unveil a new type of comfort within your own skin. And it can expose your strength in a different light that makes you go home feeling beautiful and in love with yourself and your body again. A boudoir session with Allebach Photography is much more than a photo session, it is a way to rediscover what makes you, the magnificent person you are both in body and in self.
Being Pampered – Every woman deserves a day to feel like a true queen. Sipping on champagne, getting your hair and makeup done and then slipping into something that makes you feel sexy and beautiful is something every woman should experience.
Celebrating the human body – The amazing thing about the human race is that each and every person is different. Each body, each smile and each expression is uniquely yours, therefore, we must celebrate it. We spend so much time hiding our bodies or feeling insecure but it is time to celebrate every freckle and every curve.
Gift for your SO – Your significant other loves you just the way you are. They love the way you move, the way you laugh and the way your eyes sparkle when you are feeling confident and strong. What could be a better gift than giving them artwork of one of the things they love the most.
Treating yourself – Women rarely do things for themselves. Either you are a mom chasing after your kids, a wife making sure all the errands are done, or a career woman who is motivated and working long hours. Women sometimes get so lost in the shuffle of everyday life that they don’t take the time to appreciate themselves as a woman, and being a woman is definitely something worth honoring.
Healing/Therapy – No matter what traumatic experience you have been through, if it is domestic violence, a car accident, an illness or etc… you are seeing the light at the end of the tunnel and you have earned the right to remind yourself just how beautiful you really are. No matter what life altering experience you have been through, you are more stunning and stronger than ever. Time to peel away the trauma and show yourself that strength!
Feeling free to be yourself – Walking into a boudoir session could be a huge step out of your comfort zone, but once you are in front of the camera, and start feeling more confident and comfortable, your personality will slip in and not only will your artwork be sensual and beautiful, but your art will also be as quirky, cute and silly as you are.
Feeling fine. You have set a goal for yourself, you have been eating healthy, working out and drinking plenty of water. You are feeling good. No, you have been feeling great! You just tried on those jeans that you couldn’t get above your thighs last summer and they fit, your arms are looking toned and you catch yourself smiling as you check yourself out in the mirror. Time to call us and set up that boudoir session.
Couples boudoir experience: Let me ask you one question, do you remember the last time you and your SO did something that focused solely on how much you love each other? The two of you have walked through heaven and hell together. They are the the first person you call when something good happens and the one who comforts you the most when things aren’t going well. A couples boudoir session is a way to show each other how deeply you cherish your relationship. You will walk away from the session feeling more in love, stronger and with gorgeous wall art that you and your SO can hang up in your bedroom that showcases your love for one another each and every day.
Artwork– Boudoir sessions are a great way to capture the beauty you possess in artwork that will act as a daily reminder that your body is beautiful, your soul is stunning and your personality is magnificent. On the days when nothing feels like they are going right, you are stressed, tired and are feeling down, you can take a look at that artwork and remember just how alluring you really are.
Allebach Photography is now book Boudoir and Couples Boudoir. Contact us today at 610.539.6920 or on our website here.
Couples Boudoir for Philadelphia, New Jersey and Bucks County
Allebach Photography is now offering Couples Boudoir!
Life can get hectic, crazy and non stop. In the hustle and bustle of life it’s easy to forget what matters. How do you make time and space for the person you love?
Book a couples boudoir session with Allebach Photography! Take time to show the person you love what they mean to you in this intimate, sexy portrait session. Couples boudoir will forever bring your relationship closer. When you capture the moments that matter and display them in your home, you have that anchor to look back to on.
What a wedding! Caitlin, Ryan and all of their family and friends never stopped dancing! I am telling you, I don’t think Philadelphia has ever seen so much dancing at one wedding. It was incredible to watch and so much fun to photograph.
I loved working with Caitlin and Ryan. They are such an easy going, fun couple. Once I hung up my dancing shoes, I went back to the Photo Loft in North Wales, PA, and tried to narrow down the photographs to just one album. But I couldn’t. There were so many amazing moments captured and beautiful people, I couldn’t let Caitlin and Ryan go without a two volume album! The images that were created were just too good! Between photos of the couple, the dog, their families and friends, the dancing, etc… I loved it all.
And did I mention how perfect the lighting was during the getting ready photos. It was a dream come true for a wedding photographer.
Caitlin and Ryan, I hope you guys never stop dancing!
Hope you enjoyed seeing these photos of Caitlin and Ryan’s wedding in Philadelphia, PA!
In the beautiful Washington Crossing Historic Park, located in Bucks County, PA, I was lucky enough to photograph Heather and Tyler on what it felt like was the perfect Philadelphia evening. The sun was setting just right, the weather was just what we needed and the excitement was in the air!
Heather, Tyler and I had a blast! We couldn’t stop shooting even when the sun was long gone. Tyler and Heather’s playfulness was evident in each and every frame I took. They were laughing. They were dancing. They were relaxing in the grass. It was cool to see them as a couple and even better to photograph them for their forever session! I love how my forever sessions take me all over Philadelphia and Washington Crossing Historic Park is now one of my fav. locations of the summer!
After the session, we put together an epic wall collection which I couldn’t be happier with. The collection showcased their love in such a unique and beautiful way. The photographs flowed together in such a way that really shows Heather and Tyler’s story.
When I met up with Pat and Ed at the Philadelphia Art Museum, I could only think one thing, this is what true love looks like. They were playful, fun and in love. Their infectious laughter had me cracking up behind the camera. Couldn’t have asked for a sweeter couple.
Our photo session was timed perfectly, if I do say so myself, with an incredible sunset in the background and an awesome couple in the foreground, what could make a photographer happier!?
Photographing Pat and Ed at the Philadelphia Art Museum was the perfect way to showcase their love. They are a strong, beautiful and confident couple and the Art Museum is nearly as strong and beautiful as they are. The intricate architecture of the Philadelphia Art Museum has always stood out to me, and now whenever I am in Philadelphia and see the Art Museum, I will think of Pat and Ed, the love they share and the fun we had.
Once the session was over, I went back to the Photo Loft and put together a collection of photographs for the amazing couple. They loved everything almost as much as I did! I had the honor of helping Pat and Ed put together a wall collection. Four of the beautiful photographs we created during their session are hanging in their house for everyone one to see, and I have to admit, it looks pretty cool!
To a hundred more years together, Pat and Ed!
We’d love to hear from you! Give me a call or shoot me an email if you want to set up your own forever session with your SO 🙂
This album is just as vibrant and loving as the couple inside of it. Austin and Rob are an incredible pair who are genuine and true in every sense of the word. Their love for each other is evident every time I see them. Austin and Rob’s wedding was perfect for their unique and lovable manor.
From the polka dotted bridesmaid dresses, to the suspenders that the groomsmen wore, to the style of the brides hair, this Philly wedding celebration was the perfect mix of modern and vintage.
It was one of the my fav. stylish weddings I had seen this summer in the Philadelphia Area! It screamed Austin and Rob and I was honored to have the privilege in photographing this fun, aweosme and original wedding!
Austin and Rob are an amazing team together. I could not have been happier to photograph them on the day they said I do at Normandy Farms, only 20 miles away from Philadelphia! Austin and Rob are sweet and true all the way through. They know who they are and who they love which shined bright on their Wedding day! I love the color and the vibrance of the entire day! Thank you Austin and Rob for being such a pleasure to work with!
Contact us to hear more about what we can do with your style for your wedding!
The Inn at Leola Village was the perfect location for this incredible couple. Couldn’t have found a better location in the Philadelphia Area for this energetic, lovely day! The colors were brilliant, the happiness was contagious and the love between DJ and Matt was awesome to witness.
Photographing this wedding was both fun and unique. Obviously, the couple was fantastic to work with, but this wedding was so cool… I mean come on, they even had some horses! What’s not to love!
There was never a boring moment. Always something cool to photograph. My second shooter and I were captivated the entire time. Between the clothes, the colors, the food, the traditional ceremony and the goofy moments in between, I was never not shooting and I was never shooting the same thing twice! It was a wedding photographers paradise!
These types of weddings are my favorite, so much happiness, silliness, tradition and fun. It was an honor photographing this couple on their special day and I look forward to photographing them in the future!
Not only was the wedding fantastic, but making this couples wedding album was an awesome project. The rich red leather material worked perfectly with the beautiful and vibrant images of this exciting Philadelphia Area Wedding!
Contact us to chitchat about Mike photographing your wedding!
The day was beautiful, the colors were vibrant and the love was real at this Philadelphia Area wedding, located at the Inn in Leola Village! Thank you DJ and Matt for having such a fun, vibrant and beautiful wedding.
Congrats again DJ and Matt! Your wedding was an absolute blast!
I met up with Samantha, Phil and the coolest dog in the Philadelphia Area at Los Caballitos Cantina for their engagement session. The first thing I noticed was how awesome this couple is and how excited I was to photograph them. The second thing I noticed was this bright orange wall that was completely and totally epic. I immediately thought how great this couple (and the pup) will look against the orange. Their outfits (and puppy) really popped from the orange background. We had a good time working with the orange, working the poses, laughing I love how these photos turned out!
It was a typical hot Philadelphia summer day, but none of us noticed because of how easy going, fun and beautiful Sam and Phil are. You can tell by just looking at them that they make a killer team. Their love for each other was evident in each and every frame.
We enjoyed our time at Los Caballitos Catina and walked the puppy over to Geno’s Steaks for some cool photos, a different scene and some of the best cheesesteaks in Philly! We stopped along the way to Geno’s to dance, play and ride in shopping carts! The energy and love of this couple shined even brighter as the day went on . Finally, when we got to Geno’s they dug into a cheesesteak in “Lady-and-the-Tramp” style. Nothing says Philadelphia love than sharing a cheesesteak!
Sam and Phil, Congrats! Loved how your engagement session came out and cannot wait for more in the future!
Contact us to find out more about booking your own portrait session.
It’s time for our annual Philadelphia Headshot September Sale!
Time to dust off your old LinkedIn headshot. Your friends have been talking behind your back about it. Your boss is embarrassed. You really want to find a new job but nobody will hire you because your headshot is embarrassing.
We can totally tell your headshot is a cropped version of your wedding photo to your now ex. The tux is a dead giveaway. So call us today. You’ll feel comfortable in our studio located 40 minutes from Philadelphia via the Lansdale-Doylestown line.
Book Allebach Photography for your Philadelphia Headshot Session! Check out our September $199 deal for 1 headshot. Call us at 610.539.6920 to book.
We’ve added new USB drives for slideshow videos and weddings for 2016. I love love love these beautiful flash drives from USB Memory Direct. The ones are chose are the Leather drives. The quality on the embossing is amazing!! My clients will love these.
“Every child is an artist until he’s told he’s not an artist.” – John Lennon
Dear Young Aspiring Artist,
By now you’ve seen the Old Navy t-shirt with the words imprinted “Young Aspiring Artist. President.” Those words hit me because I believe it’s hard work being an artist. Some how I want to believe the person who created it was trying to convey this. Or maybe I’m being kind and Old Navy just wanted to sell a design the helicopter parent demographic would buy. Either way since nobody really talks about the cost of creating art, I wanted to share this with you.
Art is Scary. Art is Sorcery. I believe art is sorcery. The good kind – I swear but still it’s scary. Art has the ability to change how the future looks. 8 years ago I had this crazy idea my
business could be built around photographing brides with tattoos. I loved the idea of punk rock brides. Back then this was unheard of. People thought I was weird and asked “why would you want to do that?” People still don’t understand what I do. I did it anyway. I photographed brides with tattoos and put it all over my website. Art is sorcery, it changed me. It changed my path. I remember graduating high school and I wanted to be a computer programer. I somehow ended up in this world where I get to photograph all of these super fun people. Clients I love. I realize today it’s not as much of a big deal to see a bride show off a tattoo but back in 2007 it was. Art creates new realities and can envision a future which doesn’t yet exist. It did for me.
“May your coming year be filled with magic and dreams and good madness. I hope you read some fine books and kiss someone who thinks you’re wonderful, and don’t forget to make some art — write or draw or build or sing or live as only you can. And I hope, somewhere in the next year, you surprise yourself.”
— Neil Gaiman
There is no such thing as an “aspiring” artist. You either are an artist or you aren’t. In order to be an artist there is only one requirement, you must create. Once you put your creation into the world, YOU are an artist. When the pen hits the paper, the brush hits the canvas, when you print the screenplay YOU are an artist. I’m guessing if you are reading this YOU are already an artist.
But…if you selfishly keep your ideas. If you hold onto them – never sharing them with the world, you sadly aren’t. Artists create.
Before you start asking questions, let me make this perfectly clear, you do not have to go to art school. You can even support your art with a job. Or you can make a few extra buck by selling your art on Etsy. There are no rules to being an artist other than creation. Spending an hour on creation work doesn’t make you less of an artist than spending 50 hours. In fact many people are much happier when they don’t have to rely on their art to pay the bills.
Create. That is it, create something and show us. Please, please, please don’t hold back.
“If you find yourself asking yourself and your friends, “Am I really a writer? Am I really an artist?” chances are you are. The counterfeit innovator is wildly self-confident. The real one is scared to death.”
― Steven Pressfield
The obstacles within I want to let you in on a little secret I’ve learned: Every artist I know gets scared. At some point in the process of creating things worthwhile you will face fear.
Sometimes we as artists feel unworthy to create. Sometimes we go through dry spells. Sometimes artists don’t feel one ounce of creativity. Don’t think it will get easier if your art somehow makes you famous. When you get to do what you really really love, and get recognized for it, the more of a fraud you think you are. You’ll probably wonder if your success is a fluke. Imposter Syndrome. Maybe you’ll even convince yourself you don’t deserve this notoriety. Amanda Palmer talked in depth in her commencement speech to the New England Institute of Art’s Class of 2011.
The critic If you decide to make art you will face critics. Now your critics might be imagined or they might be real. Jon Acuff explains critic math as 1 insult + 1,000 compliments = 1 insult. Be prepared for it. Realize when you are just imagining it. For some critique is helpful. Maybe you love your art being critiqued. I don’t. During the learning stages it can be great to find out the proper way to hold a brush, take a properly exposed photo or sing on key. Sadly, many times criticism can be destructive, even if the giver was trying to be constructive.
“If you ask me what I came to do in this world, I, an artist, will answer you: I am here to live out loud.”
— Émile Zola
There is nothing more beautiful than knowing a creative work is finished. When you overcome the obstacles of fear within and the critic we imagine outside, there is a reward. I’ve told you all of the obstacles you will face in hopes it will prepare you to create. We need you to practice your art. We need you to show a future we can’t yet see. Evoke love and anger and passion in our soul. We need your art to see beauty invisible to us. I promise if you are willing to let it, art will reward you for it.
Flowers add color, vibrancy, and life to every occasion, especially weddings. Without these beauties, a wedding would not feel like a wedding at all! Florists make it a point to create elaborate flower arrangements that liven up a wedding by cultivating an atmosphere of romance and delight. Here are some must-have flower ideas for weddings to get you started!
Ceremony garlands can usually be found adorning a window or an arch. They are a classic part of weddings, perfect for the entryway to a church or a banquet hall. They can be crafted by tying together a variety of flowers with baby’s breath. If you’re taking the DIY path, you will need some rope and foam wreath forms to complete the project. These garlands not only add glamour to thresholds and windows, but also make for a beautiful backdrop.
While the bouquets carried by the bride and her bridesmaids get most of the attention at a wedding, no wedding is complete without boutonnieres for the men. A boutonniere is typically a single flower bud worn through the lapel buttonhole. A loop holds the stem in place at the back of the lapel. Though a boutonniere is small, it adds a pinch of character and style. Use the same flowers and colors for the boutonnieres that you use for the bridesmaids’ bouquets for the best effect!
Focal Point: Spray Centerpieces
You will also need a centerpiece for each of your banquet tables. These are the focal points which draw the eye. For that reason, each centerpiece needs to exude glamour and extravagance. Baby’s breath is essential, as it fills out the arrangement and gives it balance, rounding out the cluster of blooms. Set up your spray centerpiece in a vase, or hang it low from the ceiling over the table. Either way, you will achieve a stunning effect!
Flower Arrangement: Tablescape
While a centerpiece serves as the focal point for a wedding table, you also need to create a beautiful tablescape of flowers that runs down the center from end to end. The key to a tablescape flower arrangement is the color of the flowers. Focusing on just one or two colors will create the most impact. Try to combine different sizes and shapes, with the tallest flowers in the middle and the shorter ones to either side.
Ceremony paths or aisle runners are flowers which are placed down the aisle of a church. You can get really creative with this type of arrangement. One whimsical idea is to pair your flowers with tree branches, which has a magical effect. Another idea is to use lanterns or candles together with flowers for a grand look which is luminously inviting.
Floral Wreaths on Cakes
The wedding cake is another focal centerpiece which is important to get just right. One easy and effective way to embellish the cake is to surround it with a wreath of flowers. If you plan to have multiple cakes at the wedding, you can choose a different design for each one. That way you create a fun and festive look with plenty of variety. Each cake will be a unique work of culinary and floral art.
Even though centerpieces may be the focal points at your wedding celebration, odds are the floral center of attention is actually the bride’s bouquet! After all, she’s the center of everyone’s attention. To create a beautiful bouquet, group together flowers in complementary colors and use wire vines to create a simple yet elegant look. You want to make the bride’s bouquet the standout bouquet of the entire wedding. Bridesmaid’s bouquets should complement the bride’s bouquet but never overshadow it!
Spring Flower Crowns for Weddings
A big trend right now is for the bride to wear a flower crown instead of the more traditional tiara. A flower crown can be extravagant or it can be subtle and understated. To create one on your own, you need scissors, floral tape, floral wire, a headband and some flowers. You can also add in other embellishments. This is a look which is easy to customize and utterly beautiful to behold.
A pomander ball is simply a ball of flowers. They look great as table centerpieces, either hanging low from the ceiling or placed directly on the table. They also can be used to line the aisle at the actual ceremony. Pomanders can provide a look which is fun and whimsical, but with a touch of elegance. Red roses make for a particularly classy and elegant vibe. You can add other materials to your flower pomander to embellish it, like fake butterflies.
Several types of flowers are edible, including chamomile, geraniums, nasturtiums, and violets. What can you do with them? Consider using them as cupcake toppers or décor for your wedding cakes. Make sure you know where they came from and that they were grown pesticide-free. They can add a dash of unique flavor, and a look of gourmet elegance.
Every wedding needs to feature these flower arrangements to make it an occasion to remember! Let your creative juices flow. You can order your arrangements directly from the florist, or buy flowers wholesale and DIY. Either way, free your imagination, and you will achieve a beautiful ambiance for your special day!
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We’d like the welcome the newest member of our family Rogue, an English Bull Terrier. She got off the plane at Philadelphia Airport and went straight to our North Wales studio for a pet photography session. Isn’t she the cutest!?!?!?!
Renato stopped by for a professional headshot for LinkedIn. We made sure to deliver professional photography. He is based in Philadelphia and travels to Montgomery County and Bucks County. For info on headshots visit our headshot pricing page: http://allebachphotography.com/price-guide/headshots