For this couple, their journey with Allebach Photography began with a simple Facebook post. What followed was a transformative experience that deepened their connection and allowed them to celebrate their unique love story.
Meet the Couple
At the heart of this story is a queer, trans man in his early 40s who, along with his wife, has shared nearly 20 years of love and adventure. Living in a small mountain town near Shenandoah National Park, they’ve built a life filled with travel, reading, cheering for the St. Louis Cardinals, and parenting their two boys, aged 8 and 10.
Their relationship began shortly after he started his social transition, and his wife has been a steadfast supporter throughout his physical transition. He describes their small-town life as both challenging and rewarding, especially given his open transition in a public-facing job. “Living out and very open in a small town can be daunting at times, but there have been way more rewarding experiences than not,” he shares.
The impact of their openness has been profound, touching the lives of trans youth and adults who have sought guidance and support. “The number of trans youth and adults who have reached out to me because they heard about me from a friend of a friend has been such a shining light in my life.”
Overcoming Fears and Taking the Leap
Despite their strong bond, booking a boudoir session came with its own set of obstacles. Money was a concern, and his wife was apprehensive. The open model call at Allebach Photography helped alleviate some financial worries, and after 20 years together, they decided it was time to spice things up a bit.
They chose to bring an array of outfits, including lingerie, a corset, and matching rainbow undies, but the nerves were palpable. “I was nervous and awkward,” he admits. The session started off similarly, but as they spent more time with Mike, their photographer, they began to relax.
“Mike made us feel awesome, especially when he would get excited about a shot he captured. I left feeling like my wife felt like she was as beautiful as I’ve been telling her she is for years.”
Unexpected Moments and Lasting Impressions
The session brought some surprises, including how much he ended up directing his wife during the shoot. “I was surprised by how much I directed my wife at times; ‘grab my beard,’ ‘put your hand here.’” The couple’s playful and intense interactions made the session unforgettable.
Seeing the images for the first time was a wave of emotions. “I felt excited and relieved that we didn’t look like idiots. I felt a wave of love seeing the way my wife was looking at me in the pictures.” They chose an album with all of their favorite images, a perfect way to cherish these memories.
Advice and Reflections
For anyone considering a session with Allebach Photography, their advice is practical and heartfelt. “Take inventory of the reasons that are preventing you from booking and tackle those individually. I think you’ll be surprised once you break them down.”
Since their session, even in just a few days, they’ve noticed a rekindling of their passion. “We are flirting and looking at each other differently.” Their favorite part of the experience? It’s hard to choose. “I loved watching my wife feeling herself (mentally – haha). I loved how playful we were with each other, but also how intense it was.”
And a final piece of advice: “Drink water throughout. I didn’t feel thirsty during, but afterward I felt like I couldn’t drink enough. Also, do the corny thing or the dorky thing that pops in your head. Some of the stuff we were doing in between ‘poses’ are some of our favorite pictures, whether that is blowing a raspberry on her stomach or playing booty drums.”
Their story is a beautiful reminder of the power of love, openness, and the magic that can happen when you step out of your comfort zone and embrace new experiences.
Allebach Photography is committed to creating a safe and welcoming environment for people from all walks of life. Whether you are LGBTQ+, have a unique love story, or simply want to capture the beauty of your relationship, Allebach Photography is here for you. Our team understands the importance of feeling comfortable and respected during your session, and we strive to celebrate and honor each individual’s journey.
Ready to embark on your own transformative experience? Book your session with Allebach Photography today and let us help you capture your story in a way that is uniquely yours. Visit Allebach Photography to learn more or schedule a call with us today! Embrace your love, celebrate your journey, and let your true selves shine through our lens.