{"id":7679,"date":"2023-04-13T11:11:06","date_gmt":"2023-04-13T15:11:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/?p=7679"},"modified":"2024-07-08T13:14:27","modified_gmt":"2024-07-08T17:14:27","slug":"a-huge-fk-you-to-society-and-to-the-heteronormative-monogamous-world-in-which-we-live","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/a-huge-fk-you-to-society-and-to-the-heteronormative-monogamous-world-in-which-we-live\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;A\u00a0Huge\u00a0\u2018F**k You\u2019 To Society And To The Heteronormative, Monogamous World In Which We Live.&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>On the outside, Andreya and Angie\u2019s engagement during their Couples Boudoir Session may have seemed like the ultimate surprise, but for Andreya it was months, if not years, in the making.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1800\" height=\"1200\" src=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0321-12_0x18_0-26-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg\" alt=\"Same Sex Couple - BDSM inspired outfits, engagement\" class=\"wp-image-7680\" srcset=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0321-12_0x18_0-26-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg 1800w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0321-12_0x18_0-26-A-Q01-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0321-12_0x18_0-26-A-Q01-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0321-12_0x18_0-26-A-Q01-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0321-12_0x18_0-26-A-Q01-1200x800.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0321-12_0x18_0-26-A-Q01.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1800px) 100vw, 1800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI had taken her to design her engagement ring a few months ago because I wanted her to have a ring she&nbsp;truly loved,\u201d said Andreya, explaining how her vision became a reality.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1800\" height=\"1200\" src=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSC_2631-12_0x18_0-23-A-Q01.jpg\" alt=\"Closeup detail of newly engaged woman's hand and ring on partner's back\" class=\"wp-image-7681\" srcset=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSC_2631-12_0x18_0-23-A-Q01.jpg 1800w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSC_2631-12_0x18_0-23-A-Q01-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSC_2631-12_0x18_0-23-A-Q01-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSC_2631-12_0x18_0-23-A-Q01-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSC_2631-12_0x18_0-23-A-Q01-1200x800.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1800px) 100vw, 1800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Once the ring was ready, she picked it up and planned a surprise date, a Couples Boudoir Session with us at Allebach Photography.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;\u201cShe had no idea what we were doing or where we were going. When we pulled up to the studio she got super excited because she knew where we were and was thrilled to be doing a shoot. We had both done previous shoots with Mike and our other partners\/families.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1800\" height=\"1200\" src=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8405-12_0x18_0-32-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg\" alt=\"Lesbian couple snuggling on bed\" class=\"wp-image-7682\" srcset=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8405-12_0x18_0-32-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg 1800w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8405-12_0x18_0-32-A-Q01-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8405-12_0x18_0-32-A-Q01-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8405-12_0x18_0-32-A-Q01-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8405-12_0x18_0-32-A-Q01-1200x800.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8405-12_0x18_0-32-A-Q01.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1800px) 100vw, 1800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>She continued, \u201cMike, Erika and I had come up with a plan on how and when to propose during the shoot and agreed to do it at the end while Angie was bound to the cross,\u201d says Andreya.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"867\" height=\"1300\" src=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0235-12_0x18_0-24-A-Q01-867x1300.jpg\" alt=\"Same sex couple, Saint Andrew's Cross, engagement photo\" class=\"wp-image-7683\" srcset=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0235-12_0x18_0-24-A-Q01-867x1300.jpg 867w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0235-12_0x18_0-24-A-Q01-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0235-12_0x18_0-24-A-Q01-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0235-12_0x18_0-24-A-Q01-1024x1536.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0235-12_0x18_0-24-A-Q01-1200x1800.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0235-12_0x18_0-24-A-Q01.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 867px) 100vw, 867px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Because they are a part of the kink\/BDSM community and enjoy impact play, Andreya ordered a custom paddle that said, \u201cMarry Me.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1800\" height=\"1200\" src=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0391-12_0x18_0-31-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg\" alt=\"Marry Me Impact Paddle\" class=\"wp-image-7684\" srcset=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0391-12_0x18_0-31-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg 1800w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0391-12_0x18_0-31-A-Q01-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0391-12_0x18_0-31-A-Q01-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0391-12_0x18_0-31-A-Q01-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0391-12_0x18_0-31-A-Q01-1200x800.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0391-12_0x18_0-31-A-Q01.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1800px) 100vw, 1800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI wanted the proposal to celebrate this part of our relationship and our sexuality,\u201d she explained.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Andreya then began to paddle Angie while she was on the cross, faced away from her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cShe couldn&#8217;t see the paddle or me because she was facing away from me while Mike was clicking away on his camera. Mike then told me to get down on both knees to paddle her and had Angie turn around. I was on both knees holding the paddle and asked her to marry me.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"867\" height=\"1300\" data-id=\"7687\" src=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSC_2582-12_0x18_0-21-A-Q01-1-867x1300.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7687\" srcset=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSC_2582-12_0x18_0-21-A-Q01-1-867x1300.jpg 867w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSC_2582-12_0x18_0-21-A-Q01-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSC_2582-12_0x18_0-21-A-Q01-1-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSC_2582-12_0x18_0-21-A-Q01-1-1024x1536.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSC_2582-12_0x18_0-21-A-Q01-1-1200x1800.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSC_2582-12_0x18_0-21-A-Q01-1.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 867px) 100vw, 867px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"867\" height=\"1300\" data-id=\"7688\" src=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSC_2613-12_0x18_0-22-A-Q01-1-867x1300.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7688\" srcset=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSC_2613-12_0x18_0-22-A-Q01-1-867x1300.jpg 867w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSC_2613-12_0x18_0-22-A-Q01-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSC_2613-12_0x18_0-22-A-Q01-1-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSC_2613-12_0x18_0-22-A-Q01-1-1024x1536.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSC_2613-12_0x18_0-22-A-Q01-1-1200x1800.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSC_2613-12_0x18_0-22-A-Q01-1.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 867px) 100vw, 867px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Andreya pulled out the ring. Angie, who was completely surprised, said yes, and Mike and Erika worked their magic, clicking away and capturing the entire experience.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-2 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1800\" height=\"1200\" data-id=\"7692\" src=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0348-12_0x18_0-28-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7692\" srcset=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0348-12_0x18_0-28-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg 1800w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0348-12_0x18_0-28-A-Q01-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0348-12_0x18_0-28-A-Q01-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0348-12_0x18_0-28-A-Q01-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0348-12_0x18_0-28-A-Q01-1200x800.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0348-12_0x18_0-28-A-Q01.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1800px) 100vw, 1800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1800\" height=\"1200\" data-id=\"7689\" src=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0329-12_0x18_0-27-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7689\" srcset=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0329-12_0x18_0-27-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg 1800w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0329-12_0x18_0-27-A-Q01-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0329-12_0x18_0-27-A-Q01-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0329-12_0x18_0-27-A-Q01-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0329-12_0x18_0-27-A-Q01-1200x800.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0329-12_0x18_0-27-A-Q01.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1800px) 100vw, 1800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1800\" height=\"1200\" data-id=\"7691\" src=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0370-12_0x18_0-30-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7691\" srcset=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0370-12_0x18_0-30-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg 1800w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0370-12_0x18_0-30-A-Q01-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0370-12_0x18_0-30-A-Q01-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0370-12_0x18_0-30-A-Q01-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0370-12_0x18_0-30-A-Q01-1200x800.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0370-12_0x18_0-30-A-Q01.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1800px) 100vw, 1800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1800\" height=\"1200\" data-id=\"7690\" src=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0359-12_0x18_0-29-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7690\" srcset=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0359-12_0x18_0-29-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg 1800w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0359-12_0x18_0-29-A-Q01-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0359-12_0x18_0-29-A-Q01-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0359-12_0x18_0-29-A-Q01-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0359-12_0x18_0-29-A-Q01-1200x800.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0359-12_0x18_0-29-A-Q01.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1800px) 100vw, 1800px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Andreya and Angie \u2013 an unconventional love story<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Andreya and Angie believe their engagement means so much more than most because it represents \u201cthe willingness to lose everything we had built in life because we believed so much in our love.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1800\" height=\"1200\" src=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9444-12_0x18_0-16-A-Q01.jpg\" alt=\"Closeup of same sex couple about to kiss\" class=\"wp-image-7693\" srcset=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9444-12_0x18_0-16-A-Q01.jpg 1800w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9444-12_0x18_0-16-A-Q01-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9444-12_0x18_0-16-A-Q01-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9444-12_0x18_0-16-A-Q01-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9444-12_0x18_0-16-A-Q01-1200x800.jpg 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1800px) 100vw, 1800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cThe relationship that Angie and I have is a&nbsp;huge&nbsp;\u2018Fuck You\u2019 to society and to the heteronormative, monogamous world in which we live. While we are unconventional, we&#8217;re&nbsp;the happiest, strongest we have ever been and I have no doubt that our marriage will continue to emulate this,\u201d says Andreya.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1800\" height=\"1200\" src=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9884-12_0x18_0-17-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg\" alt=\"Poly same sex couple, bdsm\" class=\"wp-image-7694\" srcset=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9884-12_0x18_0-17-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg 1800w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9884-12_0x18_0-17-A-Q01-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9884-12_0x18_0-17-A-Q01-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9884-12_0x18_0-17-A-Q01-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9884-12_0x18_0-17-A-Q01-1200x800.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9884-12_0x18_0-17-A-Q01.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1800px) 100vw, 1800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>The two met back in 2016, when Andreya was searching for an animal communicator that could help connect her with her deceased English bulldog, Bella. Both of them were in serious, heterosexual relationships at the time.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWe met at my home for the session and the minute she walked in the door I felt an intense energetic connection with her. I was married and had just had my first child at that time and Angie was in a long-term relationship so I took that energy and put it in a box and figured maybe we could be friends,\u201d said Andreya, looking back.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1800\" height=\"1200\" src=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0015-12_0x18_0-19-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg\" alt=\"Same sex couples boudoir\" class=\"wp-image-7696\" srcset=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0015-12_0x18_0-19-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg 1800w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0015-12_0x18_0-19-A-Q01-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0015-12_0x18_0-19-A-Q01-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0015-12_0x18_0-19-A-Q01-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0015-12_0x18_0-19-A-Q01-1200x800.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF0015-12_0x18_0-19-A-Q01.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1800px) 100vw, 1800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>A year later, Andreya contacted Angie again, this time to set up a session with her other dog who was struggling with medical issues, and that\u2019s when their friendship really took off.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cAngie and her partner would come and do communication sessions at my home with my husband and two children and we all just clicked. One of the things I loved most about her was the way she interacted with my children and how wonderful she was with them.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1800\" height=\"1200\" src=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8452-12_0x18_0-03-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7695\" srcset=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8452-12_0x18_0-03-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg 1800w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8452-12_0x18_0-03-A-Q01-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8452-12_0x18_0-03-A-Q01-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8452-12_0x18_0-03-A-Q01-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8452-12_0x18_0-03-A-Q01-1200x800.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8452-12_0x18_0-03-A-Q01.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1800px) 100vw, 1800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>When COVID hit, the two families began to hang out as a COVID pod, and that\u2019s when the romantic feelings really began. After confessing to each other their feelings for one another on a plane ride home from a sex therapy conference (Andreya is a certified sex therapist with a Ph.D. in clinical sexology and Angie is a sex and relationship coach), they decided to share this info with their respective partners.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cIt was imperative to both of us that we not break any relationship contracts in our other relationships so we each went home and spoke to our significant others about how we felt. Our other partners celebrated with us and encouraged us to pursue a polyamorous relationship. All four of us communicated and consented to each and every part of this journey.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1800\" height=\"1200\" src=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8534-12_0x18_0-06-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7697\" srcset=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8534-12_0x18_0-06-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg 1800w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8534-12_0x18_0-06-A-Q01-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8534-12_0x18_0-06-A-Q01-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8534-12_0x18_0-06-A-Q01-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8534-12_0x18_0-06-A-Q01-1200x800.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8534-12_0x18_0-06-A-Q01.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1800px) 100vw, 1800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>This relationship went on for eight months, but in the end, neither Angie\u2019s partner nor Andreya\u2019s husband turned out to be ok with the arrangement and Andreya\u2019s husband asked her for a divorce, while Angie\u2019s partner ended their relationship.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1800\" height=\"1200\" src=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9134-12_0x18_0-12-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7699\" srcset=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9134-12_0x18_0-12-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg 1800w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9134-12_0x18_0-12-A-Q01-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9134-12_0x18_0-12-A-Q01-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9134-12_0x18_0-12-A-Q01-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9134-12_0x18_0-12-A-Q01-1200x800.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9134-12_0x18_0-12-A-Q01.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1800px) 100vw, 1800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cSo in June of 2022 Angie and I moved in together along with my kids and have been navigating the insanity of divorce and rebuilding ourselves and our lives ever since. While this journey has been unbelievably painful and toxic due to the insanity of our ex-partners and the terrible things they have done and continue to do we just keep getting stronger.\u201d I have had to grieve the loss of my family and begin to rebuild a chosen family,\u201d says Andreya.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1800\" height=\"1200\" src=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9259-12_0x18_0-14-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7698\" srcset=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9259-12_0x18_0-14-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg 1800w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9259-12_0x18_0-14-A-Q01-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9259-12_0x18_0-14-A-Q01-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9259-12_0x18_0-14-A-Q01-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9259-12_0x18_0-14-A-Q01-1200x800.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9259-12_0x18_0-14-A-Q01.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1800px) 100vw, 1800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Seeing their photos and life post session<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI felt peace when I saw the images, which I&#8217;m sure is not what most people think of feeling when looking at boudoir&nbsp;photos. We both commented on how calm and natural this shoot felt compared to the past ones we had done,\u201d said Andreya.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1800\" height=\"1200\" src=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9364-12_0x18_0-15-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7700\" srcset=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9364-12_0x18_0-15-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg 1800w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9364-12_0x18_0-15-A-Q01-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9364-12_0x18_0-15-A-Q01-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9364-12_0x18_0-15-A-Q01-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9364-12_0x18_0-15-A-Q01-1200x800.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9364-12_0x18_0-15-A-Q01.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1800px) 100vw, 1800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>They weren\u2019t focused on how \u201csexy\u201d they looked; instead they focused on their true, authentic connection.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cThe pictures exhibited that beautifully. We will always have the album and paddle and canvas that we ordered for our bedroom to remember this special day,\u201d Andreya said.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1800\" height=\"1200\" src=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9980-12_0x18_0-18-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7701\" srcset=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9980-12_0x18_0-18-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg 1800w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9980-12_0x18_0-18-A-Q01-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9980-12_0x18_0-18-A-Q01-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9980-12_0x18_0-18-A-Q01-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9980-12_0x18_0-18-A-Q01-1200x800.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF9980-12_0x18_0-18-A-Q01.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1800px) 100vw, 1800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cGoing through the slide show at the end was really special because the pictures they took really captured who we are at our core. They captured our deep love and the playfulness and humor with which we choose to invest in no matter what is happening in our lives,\u201d said Angie.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-3 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1800\" height=\"1200\" data-id=\"7703\" src=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8663-12_0x18_0-07-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7703\" srcset=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8663-12_0x18_0-07-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg 1800w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8663-12_0x18_0-07-A-Q01-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8663-12_0x18_0-07-A-Q01-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8663-12_0x18_0-07-A-Q01-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8663-12_0x18_0-07-A-Q01-1200x800.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8663-12_0x18_0-07-A-Q01.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1800px) 100vw, 1800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1800\" height=\"1200\" data-id=\"7702\" src=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8807-12_0x18_0-10-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7702\" srcset=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8807-12_0x18_0-10-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg 1800w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8807-12_0x18_0-10-A-Q01-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8807-12_0x18_0-10-A-Q01-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8807-12_0x18_0-10-A-Q01-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8807-12_0x18_0-10-A-Q01-1200x800.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8807-12_0x18_0-10-A-Q01.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1800px) 100vw, 1800px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Andreya and Angie plan to get married next year after Andreya\u2019s divorce is final. The date and time aren\u2019t significant, all they know is that they want the people who love and support them to attend their small wedding outside on a farm, where they both feel most connected to each other and to the earth.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1800\" height=\"1200\" src=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8469-12_0x18_0-04-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-7705\" srcset=\"https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8469-12_0x18_0-04-A-Q01-1800x1200.jpg 1800w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8469-12_0x18_0-04-A-Q01-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8469-12_0x18_0-04-A-Q01-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/allebachphotography.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSF8469-12_0x18_0-04-A-Q01-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, 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